Here’s one of the most frustrating experience I’ve encountered as far gay dating is concerned and that is getting refused. Well, there’s this guy and so I invited him to a coffee shop on a first date. And so I offered him to buy coffee and he completely turned it down; which is really a big turn off for me. How can you have sex on a first date if you have that kind of attitude? To me, that was the worst deal breaker ever. So you might don’t want to go into that direction for Pete’s sake.